b S VSH OBCHBMB EZP "PUNPFT", UTPDOY FPNH, UFP RTCHPDSF FEFEY-DSDY CHTBYUY!
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Second - RETECHBTYCHBEN!

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UCHYDBOYE BLPOYUYMPUSH, FSH OERTPIYCHPMSHOP BOBMYYYTHEYSH RPMKHYUEOOHA YOZHPTNBGYA, EI NBMP, FEVE OBDP OBFSH VPMSHIE! th OECHPMSHOP RTYIPDYF RPOYNBOYE FPZP, UFP FEVS FSOEF L LFPNH YUEMPCELH! LBL FCHPK MEYUBEYK CHTBYU, OBRTBCHYCHYK FEVS L UREGYBMYUFKH, YYHYUBAEENKH FCHPA CHMAVMEOOPUFSH, UPPVEBA, FCHPK PTZBOYIN OBYUBM CHSHCHTBVBFSHCHCHBFSH ZHEOYMYFYMBNYO. FFP OE UFTBYOP, FFP MYYSH POBUBEF, UFP RPTB PFRTBCHMSFSHUS ABOUT FTEFSH UCHIDBOYE!

Third - RTILMAYUEOYE!

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Fourth - tPNBOFYLB!

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with RPOINBA FEVS, PUFFBOCHYFSHUS FTHDOP, OP CHUE CE UFPYF! OE VKhDEN TBULTSCCHBFSH CHUE LBTFSCH!

Fifth - UBNPE MHYUYEE.

dPMTSOP RTPKFY OELPFTPE CHTENS RETED FFYN PFCHEFUFCHEOOOSCHN UCHIDBOYE! oEDEMS, DCHE?! uHFSH OE CH FFPN! ChSCH HCE BOBEFE, DTHZ P DTHZE, LHYUH TBOSCHI ЪBVBCHOSHI YUFPTYK, HCHYDEMY UCHPA RPMPCHYOLKH CH TBMYUOSCHI UIFHBGYSI. CHPF Y RPDPYMP CHTENS RPIOBLPNYFSHUS OBNOPZP VMYCE! OH, NSC CE HCE OE DEFI, CHUE RPOINBAF, P YUEN YDEF TEUSH! OP! rHUFSH POB ЪBIPYUEF FFPZP UBNB, YNEOOP UBNB!

uHEEUFCHHAF TBMYUOSCHE CHBTYBGYY DBOOPZP RTBCHYMB.

CHPF PDOB YЪ OII - UBNBS TBURTPUFTBOEOOBS.

RETCHPE UCHIDBOYE.

CHUEN YJCHEUFOP, UFP FBLPE UBNPE RETCHPE UCHYDBOYE.

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chFPTPE UCHIDBOYE: hNETSH BRREFIFSCH

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FP FP UCHYDBOYE, LPFPTPE BLPOYUYFUS UOBYUBMB OETSOSCHN, RPFPN UFTBUFOSHCHN NOPZPPVEEBAEIN RPGEMKHEN, U OBNELPN OB UMEDHAEHA CHUFTEYUKH. oP OILBLPZP RTPDPMTSEOIS UEZPDOS OE VHDEF. th PO FFP PFMYUOP RPOINBEF, IPFS Y RSHCHFBEFUS MAVSCHNY URPUPVBNY FFP YЪNEOYFSH.

ftEFSHE UCHIDBOYE. hVPKOBS UIMB

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yuEFCHETFPE UCHIDBOYE. tPNBOFYUEULPE

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RSFPE UCHIDBOYE. BI, LBL DBCHOP FFP VSHMP

chsch ЪOBLPNSCH HCE DBCHOP. UEZPDOS PO RTYEDEF L FEVE DPNPC ABOUT HTSYO, LBL LFP YUBUFP VSCCHBEF. TPNBOFYUEULYK MY YFP VKhDEF HTSYO RTY UCHEYUBI YMY RTPUFP CHEUEMSHCHK Y ЪBVBCHOSCHK, YFP HTS CHBY MYUOPE DEMP. oP ZMBCHOPE - CHSC HCE PYUEOSH DBCHOP CHUFTEYUBEFEUSH, Y PO BOBEF LBTsDHA FCHPA TPDYOLH, LBTsDHA YUETFPLH.

FBL UFP CHRPMOE NPTsOP TB'OPPVTB'YFSH CHUFTEYUKH Y HUFTPIIFSH OBUFPSEYK UATRTY.

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uHEEUFCHHEF Y NHTSULBS CHETUYS RTBCHYMB.

RETCHPE UCHYDBOYE: "CHOYOYK PUNPFT"

ABOUT RETCHPN UCHYDBOY NHTSYUYOB DPULPOBMSHOP YJHYUBEF CHOEYOPUFSH UCHPEK RBUYY, UNPFTYF, OE UYMYLPOCHSHCHE MY X OEE ZKHVSHCH, OBULPMSHLP LTYCHSHCH Y FPOLY LPMZPFLY, FBL ULBYBFSH, RTEYGE. ABOUT RETCHPN UCHYDBOY OE RTYOSFP FTBFYFSH DEOEZ, CHPPVEE.

h NPNEOF RETCHPZP UCHIDBOYS NHTSUYOB TEYBEF, UFPYF MY CHPPVEE UELU U FPC LPOLTEFOPC DECHHYLPK DBMSHOEKYI NBFETYIBMSHOSCHI CHMPTSEOIK, EUMY POB FFPF FFBR RTPIPDYF, FP OBUFHRBEF ...

ChFPTPE UCHYDBOYE: "rTPCHETLB ABOUT TBCHPD ABOUT DEOSHI"

rTYZMBIEOYE DECHKHYLY CH DPTPZPK TEUFPTBO EEE CHCHUE OE POBUBEF, UFP NHTSYUYOB ZPFPH FTBFYFSHUS ABOUT OEE, LFP DEMBEFUS U PDOK ZMBCHOPK GEMSHA - RTPUMEDIFSH IB FEODEOHYSNNY FTBF DECHHYL. h YDEBME RBUUYS DPMTSOB CH LPOGE CHEYUETB RPFSOHFSHUS b UYUEFPN.

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ftEFSHE UCHIDBOYE: "rTPCHETLB ABOUT CHYCHPUFSH"

NOE FFP RTBCHYMP RTPCHEDEOYS FFPZP UCHYDBOYS RPLBMBMPUSH UPCHUEN VTEDPCHSHCHN, OH B CHBN UHDYFSH UBNYN.

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с ОЕ ЪОБА, П ЮЕН ДХНБМ ЮЕМПЧЕЛ, ЛПФПТЩК УПУФБЧМСМ ЬФХ РТПЗТБННХ, ОП РТЕДУФБЧЙФШ УЕВЕ ЦЕОЭЙОХ, ТБЧОПДХЫОП РТПИПДСЭХА НЙНП ЧЩЧЕУЛЙ «ЛПУНЕФЙЛБ, ОПЧЙОЛЙ, ТБУРТПДБЦБ» С ОЕ УРПУПВОБ: РП-НПЕНХ, ЬФП ЧППВЭЕ ОЕОПТНБМШОП.

уБНП УПВПК ОБ ЬФПН, ФБЛ ОБЪЩЧБЕНПН, УЧЙДБОЙЙ (ИПФС РП НОЕ ФБЛ Ч РПИПДЕ ЪБ ЗБМУФХЛПН ТПНБОФЙЛЙ ОЙ ОБ КПФХ) ОХЦОП ПГЕОЙФШ ОБУЛПМШЛП ДЕЧХЫЛБ ЪБВПФЙФУС П ЧОЕЫОЕН ЧЙДЕ УЧПЕЗП УРХФОЙЛБ, ОБУЛПМШЛП ПОБ ТБЪВЙТБЕФУС Ч НПДЕ Й ОБУЛПМШЛП ПРСФШ-ФБЛЙ ЬЛПОПНОБ.

yEFCHETFPE UCHIDBOYE: "YOFEMMELFHBMSHOP-YNPGYPOBMSHOBS RTPCHETLB"

at FFK GEMSHA OEVPVIPDYNP RPUNPFTEFSH LBLPE-OYVHDSH YOFEMMELFHBMSHOP-GNPGYPOBMSHOPE LYOP, FIRB "yZTSCH TBHNB", "dPUFHYUBFSHUS DP OEVEU", "CHETPOYLB TEYBEF HNETEFSH" Y DT. LYOP, RTSNP ULBTSEN, ABOUT MAVIFEMS. at RPNPESHA FBLYI LBTFYO NHTSYUYOB PGEOYCHBEF IQ UCHPEK URHFOYGSCH: OTBCHYFUS MY EK LYOP, LBL POB RPOSMB EZP UHFSH, OE BDTENBMB MY RTY RTPUNPFTE.
NEFPD, LPOEYUOP, URPTOSHCHK, OP NHTSULPK NPZZ - ЪBZBDLB.

RSFPE UCHIDBOYE: "vBUUEKO"

rPMBZBEFUS RTYZMBUIFSH DECHHYLH FHDB, ZDE MEZLP PGEOYFSH EE FEMP, RTY LFPN FBL, YUFPVSH OE DBFSH OBNELB OB UELU. NHC YUYOSCH YULTEOOOE HCHETEOSCH, UFP RPUME UELUB DECHHYLB PVTEFBEF OELHA OECHTPFYUEULHA RTYCHSBOOPUFSH L RBTFOETH, YuFP X OEE RPSCHMSEFUS TsEMBOYE RPUFPSOOP UCHPOYFSH, RYUBFSH Y DBMEEL.

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rTPKDS LHTU POBLPNMEOYS U NEFPDYLPK, YUKHYUI RPVPYUOSCHE YZHZHELFSC:

vBVPYULY CH TSYCHPFE!
vPMSHOP OE VHDEF. OH NO, OH FEVE!
dBOOPE RTBCHYMP ZMBUIF: TPCHOP RSFSH UCHYDBOIK, UBNSCHK PRFYNBMSHOSHCHK UTPL DMS RPMHYUEOYS NBLUINBMSHOPZP HDPCHPMSHUFCHYS VE RPFETSH! OYLBLYI DPMZYI, RTPUOSCHI UCHSHEK! "TPNBOFILY OEF, CHUE, RTYCHEF!"

ZPTNPO RYCHSBOOPUFY! - CHUE OPPVPTPF!
LBL OBN PVEEBAF: bB RSFSH UCHYDBOIK, FS UNPTSEYSH HCHMEYUSH YuEMPCHELB CH UETSHESHE PFOPIEOYS! CHUE RPDUYUYFBOP CHRMPFSH DP LPMYUEUFCHB YUBUPCH, FSH UNPTSEYSH RTYCHSBFSH YuEMPCHELB OBCHUEZDB!
pFUADB Y CHCHCHPD, RETEKDEF MY FCHPS CHMAVMEOOPUFSH CH ITPOYUEULHA UFBDYA YMY RTPMEFYF, OE BDECH RTY LFPN FCHPY PTZBOSH YUHCHUFCH, BCHYUYF OBRTSNHA PF FEVS, FCHPEZP PFOPYUZMEYUBEYS EY! CHEDSH ON NPTSEF RPUFBCHYFSH OERTBCHYMSHOSHCHK DYBZOP, OP FHF OE KHOSHCHBK, OBKDEFUS DTHZPK, LFP CHSHCHMEYUYF FCHPY MAVPCHOSCHE FETBOYS! b NPTSEF PO OBOBBYYF FEVE DPMZPUTPYuOSCHK LKhTU FETBRY, UMEDHS LPFPTPNKh FShch PFRTBCHYYSHUS RTSNYILPN Ch bzu!

I’m going to drink tea yesterday, I’m reading you, sometimes funny, sometimes sad. Smart, educated and modern ladies are sitting here, keeping up with the times, but after reading the posts "about who should pay" and the holy comments on them, I felt sad. We live in a modern, but patriarchal society where there is an etiquette that regulates these issues. I thought that, somewhere, somewhere, but on the gossip they know about it, but as it turned out, I was wrong.

And so the modern dating etiquette is M+F, M+M, F+F.

First dates: When?

The ideal time for a first date is Wednesday afternoon and evening. Then comes Thursday preferably evening, after Tuesday lunch break and evening.

For a first date, a nice cafe with affordable prices is suitable.

If the weather permits, it is advisable to take coffee / tea / milkshake with you and go for a walk in the square / park, etc.

For the second and third dates, a cinema / theater / circus / exhibition is suitable. After that, it will be possible to discuss what they saw in the nearest cafe. Then go for a walk, just after the third date, he / she can already see you off and kiss you for the first time.

On the fifth or seventh date, you can already go to the skating rink / game (now it’s fashionable to take girls to hockey and basketball), jump on a trampoline, fly in a wind tunnel, ride a bike, etc.

How?

How many dates should it take before the first kiss? Three to five dates.

How many dates should go before the first sex? Three to seven dates.

Who should invite to meet? There are no hard and fast rules for the first and second dates. On the third and subsequent dates, the initiative in pairs M + F should go to the man.

In pairs F + F and M + M to your partner, if you took the first steps.

Who should pay?

In M+F pairs, the man has to pay in the cafe and for the taxi/fare. In pairs M + M, F + F, the one who invited.

BUT!!! If you are completely unfamiliar, he / she is a complete stranger to you, and you have not yet understood whether you like him, then you pay for yourself. For tickets to events (cinema/concert/theater), the one who invited is the one who pays and buys.

Every self-respecting girl is 10 minutes late, and a very self-respecting girl is 15 minutes late. But be sure to warn that she is late for 5 minutes. More late is... not very nice!

If the man who invited you is late for more than 10 minutes, and he didn’t warn you that he was late, after 15 minutes. waiting, you can safely leave.

In pairs M + M, F + F, everything is the same, but only the one who invited is waiting.

In what?

You must be dressed appropriately and according to the weather.

Before the meeting, the girl needs to refresh her make-up and hairstyle. You must be fresh as a May rose.

If you meet right after work or at lunchtime, business attire is quite acceptable. In other situations, on a date, he is not allowed.

What to talk about?

Forbidden topics are religion, politics, work, money, relatives, illness, problems and discussion of your mutual acquaintances, if any. Leave the gossip for the gossip.

Desirable topics are culture, cooking, art, cinema, travel, series, animals (everyone loves cats), sports, music.

On what?

The first two dates you meet at the entrance/monument/fountain/crooked palm tree, etc. It is completely unacceptable on the first and second dates for you or you to drive up, this is only allowed on the third date.

Basic rules. For couple M+F

A man should: help a girl get out of a car / transport, go down the stairs, etc., hold the door, take a coat, help dress him. If it is raining, then a man should hold an open umbrella.

For couples M + M and F + F, it is better not to do such signs of attention, so as not to provoke aggression around. Our society is not yet ready for this.

On a first date, a man can come with flowers, but it should be either one small rose, or a small bouquet of lilies of the valley / lilacs / violets / bluebells / tulips / hyacinths / forget-me-nots / cornflowers / daisies, something small and cute seasonal. Colored brooms of roses are vulgar.

Do you often hear your friends admonish you before a date? “Don’t kiss on the first, only on the third!”, “No trip to him before the fifth!” How seriously did you take such advice?

Most likely, you listened to them with laughter, as a joke. But on a date, they began to behave in accordance with these instructions - all of a sudden, really. And if they behaved exactly the opposite, then in the future, recalling their romance of one day, they listened to the triumphant and compassionate words of their friend at the same time: “I told you!”. Do these five date rules really exist?

Relationship magazines are full of articles with detailed instructions on how to keep a man, bind him to you, what to do with him, how to behave properly for a woman, what a man should and so on. Under these conditions, the rules of behavior on dates were formed, the creators of which claim that if they are observed, you are guaranteed a controlling position in relationships and, in general, happiness in your personal life. Let's see what they are.

1 date. We look at each other. Here the task is to impress, as well as to interest, to kindle interest. The constant companions of the first date are beauty, courtesy, gallantry. It is on the first date that it is determined whether the second will take place. But don't forget to take care of yourself. If the satellite is charming, invited you, for example, to bowling, which you can not stand, it is better to signal this. Tactically, of course. Surely you will find a pastime interesting for both. Here it is recommended to maintain distance and restraint at all costs. And what in this case to do with temperament? (Speech, of course, about character, not sex).

2 date. Everything that was left behind the scenes on the first date, it's time to clarify on the second. Habits, hobbies, hobbies, worldview. Do you have any questions after the first meeting? If not, what do you do on the second? Oh yes. The image of the snow queen is also recommended here.

3 date. Passions are heating up. You get to know each other more and more. If you can still go on a second date by inertia, the third is much more difficult. Therefore, at a minimum, you are attractive to your companion. You can relax a little and allow yourself to order your favorite chicken wings and eat them with your hands - instead of liver in pineapple sauce.

4 date. Precedes the decisive 5th. Therefore, it is recommended to throw brushwood into the fire. The atmosphere is the most romantic, the look is alluring. Receive and say compliments, be frank, share your impressions. In general, this is true for all dates. In order for a person to want to open up to you, you need to let him know that you also have nothing to hide. Nevertheless, it is started with the expectation of a happy continuation, it is possible that in the registry office. Therefore, the role of an independent expert is inappropriate.

And finally 5 date. There is more freedom here. Liberties are allowed. And you can check not only mental, but also physical compatibility. After the fact, you can draw final conclusions whether your person is actually next to you. Are you ready to work on a relationship with him in the future.

It should be noted that often the rules of dating or relationships are perceived as a magic pill, after drinking which you will be happy. But the truth is that relationships are based on feelings and spontaneity. Responsibility and reliability are based on trust and free choice, which means that the key to a successful acquaintance is sincerity and naturalness. Therefore, the question of when and what to do, and allow yourself on a date according to his number, can be asked by people who are deprived of intuition and a creative approach to life. It's not about us, is it?

Also, the 3 or 5 date rules are very popular with pickup artists. How do you determine who is in front of you - an ideal contender in all respects for your hand and heart or an insidious seducer? Just break the rules!

A quick transition to intimate relationships at the level of the third or seventh date is the main reason that can destroy quite promising relationships. Surely many of you already know this from your own experience.

Let's look at the reason for this phenomenon. It can be compared to a power surge in an apartment. With a smooth supply of energy, you can safely use electricity, but if there is a jump at the station, your household appliances simply burn out. The same thing happens at the stage of formation of new relationships. When emotional intimacy is a two or three on a scale of one to ten, and physical intimacy is a ten, there is a similar swing.

You yourself do not yet realize what kind of relationship you have and what to expect from them. You cannot yet answer the question of what binds you. Therefore, succumbing to emotions, you rush things. And when morning comes, you wake up in the same bed and feel embarrassed and uncomfortable, because you are still strangers to each other.

You need to be sure that you can trust each other, that your relationship is already strengthened when you go to bed. Are you ready to say that after three or six meetings, relations are strengthened? I think the majority will answer "No".

Relations at this stage are still too unsteady and fragile to withstand the tension that has arisen. And as a result, they turn out to be complete, I would even say ruined, because you have a feeling of understatement, emptiness. Even if you do not break up immediately, decide to form a couple ahead of time, there will be a well-known “regret buying” syndrome in salespeople. And since you have decided to form a couple, it will be much harder for you to end the relationship if one of you realizes that you are still not suitable for each other.

I understand that you can be very drawn to each other - this is based on the direct response of the body. The initial reaction is not to be trusted when it comes to forecasts for the future. If, apart from “traction”, nothing else binds you, you need to realize this and not rush.

Tip one: meet at least seven times before going to bed. This will be our "rule of seven meetings." No wonder they say: "Measure seven times, cut one"!

By the way, when counting meetings, keep in mind that multiple meetings per day do not count. In other words, if you had breakfast together, had lunch, then went to a restaurant, and then another to the cinema, these are not four meetings, but only one, long, although good. Keep it up!

Thanks to the "rule of seven meetings" you will allow your relationship to develop and strengthen before testing it for strength with sex. Of course, if you just want sex - to your health. You can jump into bed even in the first fifteen minutes. This is your own business. However, your goal is not a fleeting connection, but something more lasting.

Maybe one of you will say: "But my friends slept together at the first meeting, and now they have been happily married for many years." There are couples, as there are those who met their love when they least expected it. Everything happens in our life. It's just that statistics are an inexorable thing. The chances of this happening to you are very small.

But what to do, you ask, if your date is already the fourth or even the sixth and you really like the person? Late evening, you are excited, you are drawn to him ... You can hardly restrain yourself! What to do? Take a cold shower! Passion is wonderful. And I understand how you want it. So enjoy the feeling of anticipation! This is an amazing feeling when you are waiting for a hug, your body is tense and filled with passion. Extend this fun! Enjoy! It is very good that you are overwhelmed by feelings, just do not let them control the situation. Otherwise you will never go beyond the bed. Of course, you don’t need to bring everything to the point of absurdity and say at the first hug: “I would really like to make love to you, but I read a book that says that you need to wait until the seventh date.” If this rule is not yours, it will not work! Decide in advance for yourself how you will behave in a similar situation. Only then will you act in accordance with your interests. You will be able to deal with your own desires when the time comes if you learn to say no. Say, “I would love to, I am drawn to you. I really like you. But I want to wait a bit until we get to know each other better.”

A few words especially for men. Do you think that if you do not show perseverance, the woman will think that something is wrong with you? Believe me, a woman will respect you even more and appreciate you for not rushing things, which means you want to know her as a person before as a woman. You yourself know very well that the word "no" makes a woman even more desirable. By following the rule of seven meetings, you will show all your masculinity and sexuality in the best possible way. Then you will firmly make it clear that a strong relationship is more important to you than an orgasm.

And remember that this rule forbids you to have sex before the seventh meeting, but does not require you to go to bed immediately after the seventh meeting! Many people, having reached this milestone, feel that their relationship is not yet ripe for intimacy or that they are not yet ready to stop seeing other partners.

If you have even the slightest doubt in your heart that your partner will want to see you after bed, then the time has not yet come for her. If you're not sure if it's time for you to sleep or it's too early, it's best to refrain.

Many people view sex as a way to experience intimacy and love. Understand, it's just a feeling! More often, women feel this way: they associate sex with a feeling of closeness and tenderness. Sex can really cause these feelings and sensations. But when the first drunkenness is gone, you will feel even more alone!

Tenderness, affection and love - these feelings need to be worked on. The basis of your feelings is trust, mutual understanding, respect and shared memories. Only on this basis can you build a strong relationship. Otherwise, they will dissipate like mist.

SUMMING UP

• Understand what sex means to you.
• If sex is not an end in itself for you, but a means to achieve something else, try to achieve this other differently.
• Do not associate sex with a feeling of intimacy and love!

The first five dates - how to start a romantic relationship correctly, so as not to disappoint and not be disappointed

It usually starts with the first date, for which we prepare so carefully. First meetings are the deep foundation of future relationships. They can also indicate whether this person is right for you. Be that as it may, first dates are a kind of testing of a person we like, and it is very important to conduct this testing correctly.

What is the first five date rule

This rule is widely known around the world, but the attitude towards it is diverse. Within the framework of this rule, there are certain principles of behavior and refraining from serious expressions of feelings. The five date rule gives people the time and opportunity to think logically about compatibility. Its charm lies in the fact that you do not have to see a person as many as five times if you have disagreements and conflicts, you can stop everything at any time. It also helps to keep a certain distance, in which the feelings of falling in love do not drown out the sober voice of our mind.

first date

Let it not be an expensive restaurant or a place where you will not be smart. Find a meeting place where you both feel comfortable. It is desirable that this place somehow unites you and you can simply find topics for conversation. The first date is a business card, an exchange of interests, conversations about hobbies, you can talk a little about work. The main thing is to find common ground in your understanding of the world. On a first date, it's best not to touch each other too much. Is that meaningless light hugs at a meeting and forgiveness. Everything should be more friendly. If after the first date they are delighted with you and start showering with calls and messages, do not lose restraint, otherwise you will ruin everything.

Second date

On the first date, you should determine what unites you and, in accordance with this, choose a place for a second date. Usually on the second date they go to the cinema, theater, exhibitions, zoo, and in principle this is correct. On the second date, the topics are narrowed, it is no longer the self-portrait of a person that is being studied, but his habits, behavior and reactions. If you really like a person, you can allow yourself to be taken by the hand. Walk hand in hand, speaks of your confidence. For a man who is not looking for easy prey, this is already quite enough.

Third date

On the third date, it is advisable to go to some very beautiful place where you can walk for a long time and for hours. You are on a third date - it says that you both like each other, but liking is not enough. Long conversations will help to consolidate the effect of soul mates. You can be a little frank, talk about your family, remember your childhood. Share memories from school or some funny incidents from life. Gradually, you should show what you are in a simple life. What you love and what you don't. Continue to closely monitor the object of your sympathy. Remember what he tells you. This should still be compared and checked for compliance with reality, just in case. You can let them hug you by the shoulders, but be a lady, you can only kiss your hands.

fourth date

On the fourth date, you can experiment and introduce him to one of your friends, preferably a guy. Men feel each other better and can understand what's what. In this way, you can understand how easily he communicates with other people, whether it is easy for him to get to know them and how he will behave with you when there is someone else. Perhaps at parting you will be told a lot of beautiful words. It is not worth answering them, your smile and happy eyes are enough.

Fifth date

If you've made it to the fifth date without taking the man any liberties and he's still around, that's positive progress. It means he likes your personality. This is a special date. Let it be in a romantic place. Until this day, you had time to understand the nature of your feelings, and if you realized that this is exactly what you have been looking for for so long, then you can reciprocate the courtship rendered to you with a calm heart. Give him your kiss and let him feel like a knight - a winner, because he finally got the keys to your heart.

The most important aspect of the first five dates rule is the time aspect. Since you are given the opportunity to logically synthesize the information provided. It will be very difficult to deceive you and make you lose your guard. Don't be afraid if someone can't stand five dates, he just doesn't deserve you.